When considering individually
Respect :
There could be many reasons for developing respect.
- They are my elders.
- He helped me when I was in need.
- He had done a lot for society.
- We are protected because our soldiers take care of borders.
- Doctors and Teachers.
- Culture or religion.
Etc.
Even if someone had given you a glass of water; then saying ‘Thank you’ in return is also a form of respect.
It is also somehow symbolic to devotion. You strongly believe that person you respect is deserving for this status. He/She had some quality; which can’t be underestimated.
Fear
Fear arises out of the perception for negative outcome.
- What would I do if my startup failed?
- How would my teacher react if my homework is not completed?
- Over speeding can cause accident.
- Follow the traffic rules.
- Would I be impacted by recession?
- Make sure project implementation is as per the client’s expectation.
And so on.
Fear factor further leads to following categories.
Positive category
- Fear factor towards positivity can give you best result for your efforts.
- Fear of annual assessment can push you to spend more time on studies.
- Client’s expectation can push you for qualitative and on time deliveries.
- Fear of ‘If I lost’ make you more focused.
- You mind for wrong happenings.
- You become disciplined.
- Your emotions are natural.
Negative category
- It can make you stressed.
- It can lead to depression.
- It can reduce risk bearing capacity.
- You become backbiter.
- You have fake or diplomatic emotions.
- Rather to explore new ideas, you always mind for back up.
- Rather to proactive or aggressive; you are more defensive.
- You agreed to live on common or set patterns.
When both combined
- It results always in positivity.
- You believe in better traffic management.
- I would like to finish assigned task in time.
- Instead of having fear for coming late in night; I would spend more time with my family.
Individual approach leads to respective outcomes, but combined have matured approach.
I can say; “Fear is essential part of Respect but Respect may not be essential part of Fear”.